Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Mita & Felix: Married!


Mita & Felix: Married!

Take a look at one of our absolute favorite couples tying the knot...twice! Mita and Felix are the definition of a modern day intermix couple. Mita is Gujurati and Felix is part Puerto Rican and part Cuban. Almost a year of planning for two wedding ceremonies on two separate weekends to celebrate two very different cultures, 350 guests, three different venues and many outfit changes...we are so happy to congratulate these two lovebirds!

Of course how could we forget the most AH-MAZING vendors we had the pleasure of working with! Without all of you, none of this would have come together so effortlessly.

Check out Ceremony #1!!!

Here comes Ceremony #2!


And the FINALE...The Reception!

Thank you again to all of our amazing vendors for helping making our couple's dreams come true!

Photography/Videography: House of Talent Studio
Lighting & Entertainment: Raaz Entertainment
Decor: Wedding Design
Makeup: Makeup by Suheli
Cake: Palermo Bakery
Dessert Bar: CW Distinctive Design
Venue: Milan Banquet Hall
Baraat Horse: Echo Lakes Stables



























































Tuesday, March 19, 2013

How to choose a mehndi artist. A mehndi artist's perspective, Part I

 


Meet one of our favorite mehndi artists in the NY metro area, Lisa Butterworth from Henna by Kenzi. Read on in Part I of our henna series to see the do's and don'ts of finding a mendhi artist from Lisa's perspective, advice you don't want to miss!


Perfection and beauty are important goals for your wedding day. Along with dresses, shoes, jewelry, hair and makeup, mehndi is an essential part of the bride's look.  Be sure to budget some time to find a mehndi artist who will round out the perfection and beauty that you seek.  Find the right artist and your mehndi will be gorgeous, the experience relaxing and fun.  Find the wrong one, and you'll add an unnecessary headache to a full schedule of pre-wedding activities.  The advice in this series is intended to make hiring a mehndi artist easy, leaving you with one more wonderful wedding memory.

I have been a mehndi artist for 15 years, hennaing brides all over the NYC area including some destination weddings farther afield.  I have sweated under the watchful gaze of the mother-in-law, braved the bride's sister's demands for the mehndi party and hennaed sitting on the floor while the entire family dances around me until the floorboards shake.  I think I have seen it all but I keep an open mind for new experiences.  I truly love doing bridal mehndi, contributing my little part to the overall gorgeousness of her wedding.  There is a certain intimacy between artist and bride that I really enjoy; we discuss different styles and designs, finding ones that incorporate motifs that are meaningful to her, and choosing styles that accentuate the features of her hands and feet.  In the end, the bride and I collaborate to create a singular and ephemeral work of art that portends a happy marriage.

Form
When searching for a mehndi artist be sure to look for her portfolio of work and consider the following questions: Part I: The Creative Side

1.    Is the art hers?
It is very easy for someone to create a portfolio of stolen images; this practice is rampant in the mehndi community so be sure to ask the artist.  Look for watermarks and see if there seems to be too much of a range of quality within the portfolio.  Ask the artist if all the images on her site are her work.

2.    How much work shown is bridal?
Usually someone who does a lot of bridal mehndi will have a separate gallery of her bridal work.  If the bridal work is mixed in with other types of work, try to get an idea if there are sufficient examples of bridal designs for you to get an idea of the artist's experience doing bridal mehndi.

 3.    How much variety is in her styles?
Take note of the different styles in the artist's portfolio to get an idea of the breadth of her experience.  You want an artist who can do the style you want or can mix styles.  Ask her what her favorites are or if she specializes in any particular style.
 
4.    How much is copied from books? How much is original?

Mehndi artists often work from design books, copying designs exactly.  Some artists create original work within the guidelines of a style instead of copying.  If you see that the portfolio only contains designs created by someone else, you may not be able to get them to create an original design for you, or mix styles.  It is also possible that the artist is so original that she can't copy the exact design you want.  If you're unsure, ask them what their capabilities are.

5.    What do YOU like?
As you go through the portfolios of the artists you like, take note of the kinds of motifs and layouts that you like; this information will help your mehndi artist in creating a beautiful design for you.  Notice if you keep going back to designs that feature a lot of paisleys or flowers. Get an idea of how much coverage you want based on what you are looking at.  Bookmark or print out the designs that catch your eye so that you can show them to the artist at your consultation; this will help the artist come up with a beautiful design AND an accurate price estimate.

6.    Who thinks highly of the artist?
When looking online, google the artist's name to see if you can find mentions of them elsewhere and see what their reputation is.  If you know of a mehndi artist in another area you can ask her what she knows about the artists in your area who you are considering.  If the artist has a Facebook or Flickr page, read the comments to see what the opinions of her are.  Some artists can be found on review sites like Yelp.  This method is probably more accurate than getting a hand-picked list of references from the artist.

7.    How professional is the artist on the phone?
Follow your intuition.  How do you feel when talking to the artist on the phone?  Is she being clear about her pricing?  Does she understand your questions and concerns?  Will she show up on time, on the right date?  Is she willing to accommodate your busy schedule?  Is she willing to meet you for a consultation?


8.    Does she offer a free or cheap trial/consult?
Most bridal vendors will offer a free consultation or a low-priced trial.  Ask your prospective mehndi artist if you can meet her, look at her portfolio, go over price estimates and get a small sample.  Some artist will do this for free, others will charge a small fee.  Calling around well in advance will ensure that you have time to consult with several different artists before you make your choice.

9.    What's in your henna paste?
We've all heard horror stories about brides breaking out in hives or blisters from unknown ingredients in the henna, or worse, scarring from black henna. You have the right to know what is in the henna paste that will be used on your skin; if your mehndi artist is using safe and natural ingredients she has nothing to fear from your questions.  Let her know if you are allergic to anything, especially any essential oils.  Beware of artists who don't make their own henna paste; store-bought paste sometimes contains mystery ingredients or is too stale to leave a good stain.


- Written by Lisa Butterworth
 
Stay tuned for Part II from Lisa on questions to ask when going over pricing, contracts, etc!

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Top 10 Reasons to Hire a Wedding Planner

Confused on if you should or should not hire a wedding planner? Well take a look below and check out our top 10 reasons why you should!
  1. Do You Have the Time? – No? We do. Planning a wedding takes up an enormous amount of time. Hiring a wedding planner will help take care of the details that would otherwise take up your time. While you’re at work, we will do all of your running around to ensure your day is perfect. You can sleep, we won’t.
  1. Budget What? - A great wedding planner will sit down with you and construct a budget to meet your needs and vision, and more importantly, will make sure you stick to it! Whether it involves finding you an array of options or helping you create a vision to fit your budget, we will be there every step of the way to help make sure you don’t break the bank.
  1. We are in Your Corner - We are here to fight for you. Family members and friends will have a ton of opinions and comments on your ideas and plans. We are here to be the middle man between you and them and to ensure what you envision is what comes to life on your big day.
  1. Flutter of Ideas - There are a billion thoughts, ideas, concepts, and visions running wild in your head but who is going to help you organize them? We are. We will pick your brain to help you conceptualize the design for your big day. We will help you edit your ideas to come up with the most magical day of your lives.
  1. Who do I Hire? - As professionals, we have a database of vendors we can recommend. We take the guessing game out of which vendors work best for your vision. We can do all your research on photographers, venues, dj’s, caterers, etc. and set up appointments for them all.
  1. Timeline - We are here to make sure things get done on time. We will help create a personalized timeline for each couple and ensure things get done accordingly. We will also create a day of timeline for you and your guests so that the big day runs smoothly.
  1. Dum Dum Da Dum - The day of your wedding, you should be able to relax and enjoy the little moments. We are here to make sure you don’t see or feel any of the stress. We will take care of every detail from set-up to break-down so you don’t have to worry.
  1. Oh No, You Forgot That? - Well, lucky for you, we didn’t. Did you remember to book your cake? Get bridal party thank you gifts? Design your place cards? Get a garter belt? Order your favors? We are here to remember all the small details that may slip your mind. No detail will get left undone.
  1. Want to Enjoy the Process? - We have heard from so many brides who can’t wait for the planning process to be over by the end. We are here to make sure you enjoy every step of planning your big day. Planning your wedding is a moment in time that you will look back on forever. You should have the best memories of your planning process, and we will ensure that.
  1. Save Your Sanity - The wedding planning process can drive a person crazy. Let us carry the burden and the stress for you. We will make sure that your personal sanity and relationships feel no stress throughout the months leading up to your big day. We will stress and lose sleep over the details so you don’t have to.